Exposure

Recently, I received a question via email, "what is the best way to handle a situation where a sociopath is attempting to seduce my fiance of 8 years and father of our 7 yr old daughter?
My answer: EXPOSURE... Track down the truth- the good, bad and the ugly about the sociopath and show your boyfriend (whether he is interested or not in her). A sociopaths world and impression of themselves is built on lies. They will figure out exactly what they need to say based on their "reading" of the person they are interested and will fabricate their communication to be exactly what they feel the person they are interested needs and or wants. They go to great lengths to hide their true past because they know that no one wants to be with a self-centered manipulator. Talk to her exs, previous employers, co-workers, do a criminal background check. Go all out and expose all public records, copies of emails and chat logs on the various cheater websites. Forward the information to her friends and family. When the negative repurcusions begin to impact her negatively and she realizes she has nothing to gain by continuing her pursuit but more exposure, she will stop. She is not after your boyfriend because she wants a relationship with him. She wants him because he is committed to you. It's a game for sociopaths and they don't care who gets hurt in the process. Don't stand for it. Stand up and EXPOSE HER TO THE WORLD.